Piper asked me to wrap up these posts with a recount of my experience with the lovely Danielle. Sorry for the delay.
Danielle is lovely. A very pretty brunette with a hot body. You know she works out just by looking at her. No complaints there.
My night was strictly one-on-one with Danielle. Her husband, Greg, did not join us. I got the impression that she wears the pants in the family, at least sexually. I'm all for fun and games, and I love it when Piper teases me when I watch her with other men. But, it's all role-playing. I know I can jump in and fuck Piper whenever I want. I'm not so sure Greg enjoys the same privileges.
Danielle brought me to the bedroom and told Greg he had to come and watch. When we got there, she began to kiss me and rub my cock. She didn't fool around and got right down to business. I got to undress her and soon we were on the bed going at it. She gives really good head and told me a few times how nice it was to have a "big cock" for a change. This didn't seem to bother Greg. He just sat and watched. Frankly, she seemed to get sort of mean with Greg. First, I don't have a big cock. It's average. But, that wasn't all. There's just a hardness to her that is both attractive and off-putting.
Danielle likes to be on top and she did most of the work. She also cums pretty easily. She climaxed a few times without much effort on my part.
Piper came in at one point and offered to give Greg a blow job while he watched. She didn't know that that seems to be off limits for Greg. Danielle immediately said "No, he just watches for now." So Piper went back to Jack and Alicia.
Don't get me wrong, Danielle is very hot and it was enjoyable. I've just never been with a couple that was into hardcore cuckolding. She humiliated Greg a few times and truth be told, at one point I started to lose my erection because of how she treated him. Greg, on the other hand, didn't seem to mind at all.
That's about it for now. See you soon.
Friday, April 16, 2010
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Jack, Alicia & Me
So, Steve filled you in on a portion of our latest adventure. Apparently, I'm the go-to girl for girl-girl stuff. Danielle left me hanging. Not that I minded, really. It's just that when Alicia said she was "curious," and Danielle made her feelings known, it could have been an uncomfortable situation if I wasn't up for it.
First, let me say I'm glad I didn't say no. Alicia is very cute despite her weight issues. Basically, she's got curves and is slightly overweight. It's just that thin image we see everywhere that makes her, like some women, self-conscious. Really, Alicia looks like a classic female, with an hour-glass figure.
Then there's me, with my skinny-ass, damn near boyish body. I had to tell her I wish I had her figure. That seemed to make her feel good.
Anyway, enough of that. It was very strange to be another woman's first woman, so to speak. Definitely, a little pressure. I wanted it to be good for her but, if it wasn't her thing, I wanted her to be able to say so.
We started with some non-tongue kissing and caressing. I eventually took my top off and Alicia showed a lot of interest playing with my breasts (I'm surprised she could see them). We kissed a bit more and our tongues met. She didn't pull away quickly and when she did, she came back for some more.
Now, one of the reasons I say I'm glad I did it, was Jack. As Alicia and I kissed, she placed my hand on Jack's cock. It was hard. It was big. I could not believe I was feeling what I was feeling and when he finally undressed the look on my face made Alicia giggle. I'm thinking he was nine inches if I use Steve as a guide. Steve's a healthy 6 inches and Jack was at least half again as big. I could grip this thing at its base and still get quite a mouthful.
Size has never been a big thing with me. This one just seemed out of the ordinary and a little intimidating, like it may hurt. Maybe I'm in the minority but I haven't come across many nine inch (maybe a little more) cocks.
So, anyway, now we're at the point of no return. Alicia scrambled on top of her husband, rode him for a while and then got off him. I straddled him but didn't put his cock inside me. Not yet. I'm always a bit wary at this point, when its the first time. I'm never quite sure what the significant other will do. Everything might be going fine and the idea sounds great. But, seeing your husband fuck another woman - slide his cock into her - well, sometimes that's too much reality.
Instead, I just straddled Jack, kissed him and Alicia slid her husband into me. Yes, she did it, which seemed like the best green light a girl could have. It did take time to get Jack, all of him, into me. It did hurt a little but it felt terrific as well.
When I was comfortable though, WOW! I know this isn't lady-like but the man fucked my brains out. And, Alicia's as well. It was good, it was hot and I came three or four times, easily. When we needed a break, to cool down, we gave him some head. That was fun, working on such a big cock.
While we sucked on him, I ran my hands over Alicia and she responded by doing the same. When we looked up at Jack, he had the biggest smile on his face. He really appreciated having two women at the same time and actually thanked me later for my participation and patience in their first threesome.
Oh, if you are interested I did offer to use my mouth on Alicia, whispering the offer to her. She whispered back that she wasn't ready yet. I love a girl that understands discretion.
It all started out somewhat awkward, understandably so. Towards the end we were much more comfortable and relaxed. Jack is very nice, Alicia is very sweet and all of us can't wait for the next time. Although Alicia made it quite clear that she'd like to get to know Steve better.
First, let me say I'm glad I didn't say no. Alicia is very cute despite her weight issues. Basically, she's got curves and is slightly overweight. It's just that thin image we see everywhere that makes her, like some women, self-conscious. Really, Alicia looks like a classic female, with an hour-glass figure.
Then there's me, with my skinny-ass, damn near boyish body. I had to tell her I wish I had her figure. That seemed to make her feel good.
Anyway, enough of that. It was very strange to be another woman's first woman, so to speak. Definitely, a little pressure. I wanted it to be good for her but, if it wasn't her thing, I wanted her to be able to say so.
We started with some non-tongue kissing and caressing. I eventually took my top off and Alicia showed a lot of interest playing with my breasts (I'm surprised she could see them). We kissed a bit more and our tongues met. She didn't pull away quickly and when she did, she came back for some more.
Now, one of the reasons I say I'm glad I did it, was Jack. As Alicia and I kissed, she placed my hand on Jack's cock. It was hard. It was big. I could not believe I was feeling what I was feeling and when he finally undressed the look on my face made Alicia giggle. I'm thinking he was nine inches if I use Steve as a guide. Steve's a healthy 6 inches and Jack was at least half again as big. I could grip this thing at its base and still get quite a mouthful.
Size has never been a big thing with me. This one just seemed out of the ordinary and a little intimidating, like it may hurt. Maybe I'm in the minority but I haven't come across many nine inch (maybe a little more) cocks.
So, anyway, now we're at the point of no return. Alicia scrambled on top of her husband, rode him for a while and then got off him. I straddled him but didn't put his cock inside me. Not yet. I'm always a bit wary at this point, when its the first time. I'm never quite sure what the significant other will do. Everything might be going fine and the idea sounds great. But, seeing your husband fuck another woman - slide his cock into her - well, sometimes that's too much reality.
Instead, I just straddled Jack, kissed him and Alicia slid her husband into me. Yes, she did it, which seemed like the best green light a girl could have. It did take time to get Jack, all of him, into me. It did hurt a little but it felt terrific as well.
When I was comfortable though, WOW! I know this isn't lady-like but the man fucked my brains out. And, Alicia's as well. It was good, it was hot and I came three or four times, easily. When we needed a break, to cool down, we gave him some head. That was fun, working on such a big cock.
While we sucked on him, I ran my hands over Alicia and she responded by doing the same. When we looked up at Jack, he had the biggest smile on his face. He really appreciated having two women at the same time and actually thanked me later for my participation and patience in their first threesome.
Oh, if you are interested I did offer to use my mouth on Alicia, whispering the offer to her. She whispered back that she wasn't ready yet. I love a girl that understands discretion.
It all started out somewhat awkward, understandably so. Towards the end we were much more comfortable and relaxed. Jack is very nice, Alicia is very sweet and all of us can't wait for the next time. Although Alicia made it quite clear that she'd like to get to know Steve better.
Thursday, February 25, 2010
Jack, Alicia, Danielle & Greg....and Us
Last Saturday night, (two Saturdays ago as of this writing) we moved our new relationships along.
Piper and I met Greg, Danielle, Jack and Alicia for drinks. Then, we were all invited back to Jack and Alicia's.
After a nightcap, we all began to get comfortable. The lights were low, some music was on in the background, drinks flowing freely. Finally, Jack broke the ice with a line about: "getting started and choosing up teams."
Some ground rules had previously been hinted at. For instance, Danielle has no desire, whatsoever, to be with a woman. On the other hand, Alicia piped-in and talked about being curious about being with a girl. Knowing Danielle's feelings, all eyes fell on Piper. Everyone laughed and Piper went and sat by Jack and Alicia.
Danielle, Greg and I headed off to a bedroom, but not before watching Piper and Alicia for awhile. Jack and his wife began to kiss. Piper sat next to them and at first it looked a bit awkward until Alicia invited Piper to kiss Jack. Jack made-out with both for a few minutes before giving Alicia a little peck on the lips. Jack had a huge smile on his face. I told him that I knew that look and everyone laughed.
It was slow going with those three. Alicia was curious but shy. Piper undid her blouse and took off her bra. Alicia touched one breast, then another and finally, the two really kissed. Piper, as always, was very patient and calmed Alicia's nerves with soothing talk.
Danielle soon lost interest and took me into a bedroom, followed by her husband, Greg. She was not at all nervous and we were out of our clothes momentarily. Except for Greg. I soon found out that Greg and Danielle have a little humiliation thing going on.
The truth is, it threw me. Piper and I play our games. I like it when she teases me but it's all fun and games. No hardcore stuff. Danielle and Greg? That was a little more intense.
I'll finish this encounter in our next post and have Piper fill you in on her night as well.
Have a good weekend.
Piper and I met Greg, Danielle, Jack and Alicia for drinks. Then, we were all invited back to Jack and Alicia's.
After a nightcap, we all began to get comfortable. The lights were low, some music was on in the background, drinks flowing freely. Finally, Jack broke the ice with a line about: "getting started and choosing up teams."
Some ground rules had previously been hinted at. For instance, Danielle has no desire, whatsoever, to be with a woman. On the other hand, Alicia piped-in and talked about being curious about being with a girl. Knowing Danielle's feelings, all eyes fell on Piper. Everyone laughed and Piper went and sat by Jack and Alicia.
Danielle, Greg and I headed off to a bedroom, but not before watching Piper and Alicia for awhile. Jack and his wife began to kiss. Piper sat next to them and at first it looked a bit awkward until Alicia invited Piper to kiss Jack. Jack made-out with both for a few minutes before giving Alicia a little peck on the lips. Jack had a huge smile on his face. I told him that I knew that look and everyone laughed.
It was slow going with those three. Alicia was curious but shy. Piper undid her blouse and took off her bra. Alicia touched one breast, then another and finally, the two really kissed. Piper, as always, was very patient and calmed Alicia's nerves with soothing talk.
Danielle soon lost interest and took me into a bedroom, followed by her husband, Greg. She was not at all nervous and we were out of our clothes momentarily. Except for Greg. I soon found out that Greg and Danielle have a little humiliation thing going on.
The truth is, it threw me. Piper and I play our games. I like it when she teases me but it's all fun and games. No hardcore stuff. Danielle and Greg? That was a little more intense.
I'll finish this encounter in our next post and have Piper fill you in on her night as well.
Have a good weekend.
Friday, February 12, 2010
Looks Like We're Back
Hello Ladies & Gentlemen. It's been awhile but I'm so happy to see some of are old friends are still around. I hope everyone is happy and healthy. I also send belated Season's Greetings to all. I hope your Holidays were as fabulous as ours.
I see my delightful husband has filled you in on some of our activities. It's always fun to spend time with our good friends, Kit and Luke. We've also been exploring some other relationships and I'll fill you in.
Since October, we've developed a friendship with two other couples: Greg and Danielle and Jack and Alicia. Greg and Danielle are a few years younger than Steve and I. Jack and Alicia are a few years older. They're nice couples who have been swinging now for a few years. We met both couples in a round-about way, through other friends.
Both couples have had good and bad experiences and were looking for a discrete and limited number of experienced "friends" to explore swinging.
We've met with both couples four or five times, out at bars and restaurants as well as at our homes. Nothing sexual has occurred. We're just feeling out each other, if you'll pardon the pun.
I'm intrigued by the possibilities of having a limited number of couples involved. I was never comfortable with anonymous, one-nighters. My enthusiasm for swinging/hot wifery also runs hot and cold, as Steve well knows. I can go for weeks and weeks and be ready to give it all up. Then, I'll suddenly be into the whole thing.
On the other hand, I am wary of becoming overly involved in any emotion-driven relationships. I do not want complications. I've taken a 'wait-and-see' attitude about this. I will admit, the get-togethers have been fun and the flirtations, which just began at our last meeting, have been polite, appropriate and not overly-familiar. People who want to be instant friends turn me off.
Greg and Danielle are a professional couple, very polished and self-confident. He's pretty damn, hot as well. He definitely works out. Dan, a brunette, has a slim, hot body as well. She's attractive but has a certain edge to her.
Jack and Alicia are different. Both are very laid back. Where Greg lives at the gym, Jack has that naturally strong, manly physique. The kind of guy who has some muscle but enjoys his beer as well. He's a guys-guy. You know, the type that looks like he can re-wire your house, fix your car and build you an addition. Alicia is very cute blond, but self-conscious of her weight. I'd describe her as big, but not over-weight, but you can't tell her that. She has the prettiest, lively eyes, a great laugh and a warm personality.
So, that's about it. We're supposed to see everyone on Saturday so we'll see how it goes.
I see my delightful husband has filled you in on some of our activities. It's always fun to spend time with our good friends, Kit and Luke. We've also been exploring some other relationships and I'll fill you in.
Since October, we've developed a friendship with two other couples: Greg and Danielle and Jack and Alicia. Greg and Danielle are a few years younger than Steve and I. Jack and Alicia are a few years older. They're nice couples who have been swinging now for a few years. We met both couples in a round-about way, through other friends.
Both couples have had good and bad experiences and were looking for a discrete and limited number of experienced "friends" to explore swinging.
We've met with both couples four or five times, out at bars and restaurants as well as at our homes. Nothing sexual has occurred. We're just feeling out each other, if you'll pardon the pun.
I'm intrigued by the possibilities of having a limited number of couples involved. I was never comfortable with anonymous, one-nighters. My enthusiasm for swinging/hot wifery also runs hot and cold, as Steve well knows. I can go for weeks and weeks and be ready to give it all up. Then, I'll suddenly be into the whole thing.
On the other hand, I am wary of becoming overly involved in any emotion-driven relationships. I do not want complications. I've taken a 'wait-and-see' attitude about this. I will admit, the get-togethers have been fun and the flirtations, which just began at our last meeting, have been polite, appropriate and not overly-familiar. People who want to be instant friends turn me off.
Greg and Danielle are a professional couple, very polished and self-confident. He's pretty damn, hot as well. He definitely works out. Dan, a brunette, has a slim, hot body as well. She's attractive but has a certain edge to her.
Jack and Alicia are different. Both are very laid back. Where Greg lives at the gym, Jack has that naturally strong, manly physique. The kind of guy who has some muscle but enjoys his beer as well. He's a guys-guy. You know, the type that looks like he can re-wire your house, fix your car and build you an addition. Alicia is very cute blond, but self-conscious of her weight. I'd describe her as big, but not over-weight, but you can't tell her that. She has the prettiest, lively eyes, a great laugh and a warm personality.
So, that's about it. We're supposed to see everyone on Saturday so we'll see how it goes.
Thursday, January 28, 2010
Our Long Break - II...
... Or my wife's slut-fest. Continuing on with our fine evening with Luke and Kit.
Luke was all over Piper from the moment he arrived. It even made Kit smile. The guy couldn't wait to fuck Piper. In fact, Kit told me that Luke had been talking about it all day.
We hadn't poured our second drink before he had his hands on Piper. He was aggressive and she liked it as well. Even Kit got into the act, feeling Piper's ass and tits. Since I asked Piper to tease me that night, she told me I would have to watch, but not participate until she said so. Damn, that was hot.
When Luke had enough foreplay, he slapped Piper on the ass and nearly dragged her into the bedroom. Kit and I followed. Luke had his cock in Piper's mouth in no time. Kit got undressed and made out with Luke while I sat and watched. Kit said something like: "Piper's our little bitch tonight." And she was.
My wife is pretty submissive and the idea of submitting to another couple always gets her going. For me, there's something hot about seeing a girl encourage her boyfriend in fucking another girl.
Luke treated Piper like a little slut. He forced her down on her knees and pushed her pretty little head back and forth on his cock. After he told her to get undressed. She lowered her dress, slipped off her panties and tossed them to me without a glance. I pulled down my pants, took them and began to rub.
Luke had Kit get undressed as well and get on all fours. Then he told Piper: "Lick her pussy." Piper got on all fours and buried her mouth in Kit's pussy. Then, wonder of wonders, he had my wife rim his girlfriend. Piper licked around Kit's ass and then stuck her damn tongue in her ass. Nasty and hot.
Luke yanked her head up by her hair, kissed her and said, "You taste like ass, bitch."
I tell you, I was as horny as I've ever been. This was a new level of nastiness for Piper and when she looked at me I could tell the show was all for me.
"I'll lick her ass some more if you play with yourself," she said.
I did. She did.
They fucked, one on one and two on one. Towards the end, Kit and Luke greased up her ass so she could get butt-fucked and did she ever. I won't bore with the details but lets just say she was screaming into the pillow as he drove it home. She even started to tear up a bit before they got into a rhythm.
Awesome. And once again I find myself totally blown away by my darling wife and what she'll do to please me.
Later that night, when we were alone, I asked her if there was anything I could do for her. She kissed me and said, "take me out for a romantic dinner and then bring me home and make love to me. Just the two of us."
Piper's attention and devotion to our marriage is amazing.
Luke was all over Piper from the moment he arrived. It even made Kit smile. The guy couldn't wait to fuck Piper. In fact, Kit told me that Luke had been talking about it all day.
We hadn't poured our second drink before he had his hands on Piper. He was aggressive and she liked it as well. Even Kit got into the act, feeling Piper's ass and tits. Since I asked Piper to tease me that night, she told me I would have to watch, but not participate until she said so. Damn, that was hot.
When Luke had enough foreplay, he slapped Piper on the ass and nearly dragged her into the bedroom. Kit and I followed. Luke had his cock in Piper's mouth in no time. Kit got undressed and made out with Luke while I sat and watched. Kit said something like: "Piper's our little bitch tonight." And she was.
My wife is pretty submissive and the idea of submitting to another couple always gets her going. For me, there's something hot about seeing a girl encourage her boyfriend in fucking another girl.
Luke treated Piper like a little slut. He forced her down on her knees and pushed her pretty little head back and forth on his cock. After he told her to get undressed. She lowered her dress, slipped off her panties and tossed them to me without a glance. I pulled down my pants, took them and began to rub.
Luke had Kit get undressed as well and get on all fours. Then he told Piper: "Lick her pussy." Piper got on all fours and buried her mouth in Kit's pussy. Then, wonder of wonders, he had my wife rim his girlfriend. Piper licked around Kit's ass and then stuck her damn tongue in her ass. Nasty and hot.
Luke yanked her head up by her hair, kissed her and said, "You taste like ass, bitch."
I tell you, I was as horny as I've ever been. This was a new level of nastiness for Piper and when she looked at me I could tell the show was all for me.
"I'll lick her ass some more if you play with yourself," she said.
I did. She did.
They fucked, one on one and two on one. Towards the end, Kit and Luke greased up her ass so she could get butt-fucked and did she ever. I won't bore with the details but lets just say she was screaming into the pillow as he drove it home. She even started to tear up a bit before they got into a rhythm.
Awesome. And once again I find myself totally blown away by my darling wife and what she'll do to please me.
Later that night, when we were alone, I asked her if there was anything I could do for her. She kissed me and said, "take me out for a romantic dinner and then bring me home and make love to me. Just the two of us."
Piper's attention and devotion to our marriage is amazing.
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Our Long Break
Hello, all. Man, did we ignore Babylon Visited. Mostly, it was just Holiday craziness and overall laziness. We had a terrific Holiday and hope you did as well (if anyone is still reading).
Everything is fine with us. No, the blog-silence was not a symptom of relationship trouble. Just....life. We've been meaning to update but it's easy to put that type of thing off day after day. If we've missed any e-mails, we apologize and will remedy that soon.
On the hotwife front we have had two fun experiences. The first was towards the end of November when Kit and Luke came over. They're our favorite couple by far and we always look forward to an evening of debauchery when they come over.
Since it had been so long since seeing Kit and Luke, Piper decided to dress for the occasion. She wore a really tight dress that showed off her lovely ass. Underneath, she wore one of my favs, garter belt and black stockings. I got to sit and watch her get ready. Very hot, as she snapped the garters into place, put on her heels and applied her makeup. We got in some naughty talk beforehand, with me asking her what she'd let Luke do to her that night. That got me very excited. Then she teased me, which I love. It's kind of our new thing.
"Luke can do whatever he wants," she said.
"Ass fuck you?"
"Yes."
"Pull your hair?"
"If he wants. Anything," she said. "Maybe you should just watch."
"Can I play with myself?"
"If you're good. Maybe you can jerk off with my panties after he gets me out of them."
Heaven. For being such a lady during the day my wife can be quite the slut at night, which she proved later on. The joys of marriage.
More, later.
Everything is fine with us. No, the blog-silence was not a symptom of relationship trouble. Just....life. We've been meaning to update but it's easy to put that type of thing off day after day. If we've missed any e-mails, we apologize and will remedy that soon.
On the hotwife front we have had two fun experiences. The first was towards the end of November when Kit and Luke came over. They're our favorite couple by far and we always look forward to an evening of debauchery when they come over.
Since it had been so long since seeing Kit and Luke, Piper decided to dress for the occasion. She wore a really tight dress that showed off her lovely ass. Underneath, she wore one of my favs, garter belt and black stockings. I got to sit and watch her get ready. Very hot, as she snapped the garters into place, put on her heels and applied her makeup. We got in some naughty talk beforehand, with me asking her what she'd let Luke do to her that night. That got me very excited. Then she teased me, which I love. It's kind of our new thing.
"Luke can do whatever he wants," she said.
"Ass fuck you?"
"Yes."
"Pull your hair?"
"If he wants. Anything," she said. "Maybe you should just watch."
"Can I play with myself?"
"If you're good. Maybe you can jerk off with my panties after he gets me out of them."
Heaven. For being such a lady during the day my wife can be quite the slut at night, which she proved later on. The joys of marriage.
More, later.
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Crude or Competitive?
Here's an interesting quote from BDenied at Cuckold Husband:
Now, I realize that BDenied says the whole thing turned him on, and good for him (we really like his blog, by the way and recommend it to all). But, I think it points to a common experience for many women.
Is there something about sticking your cock in a girl that causes some men to act like they own that girl? My husband sticks his cock into me. Often. And he owns me. But that's fine because I own him as well. We own each other in so many ways.
I'm not talking about the need to discuss something that happened, or light banter spiced with innuendo. What I'm talking about is that need to notch the proverbial belt after sex with a woman. As if it's a victory of some sort and share that conquest with others. I'd hardly say all men do this. I've met many men who understand and respect discretion. I will say that the bragging habit is far more prevalent among men than women.
Steve thought about it for a while when I posed the question one night. Steve did agree that many men simply must let other men know who they have fucked. It's along the same lines as letting other men know your horse came in big.
However, Steve pointed out that some men feel very protective of the women they've been with, even when it's not a steady thing. Not creepy, overbearing protective, but good protective. Once he mentioned that, I thought about it and saw his point. Still, what's the deal? Do men see sex as an athletic competition? They are competitive by nature, which probably helped us survive in the cave-man days. Why do I think it has less to do with being disrespectful towards women and more to do with breaking another man's balls?
I don't know. My mood isn't as pissy as it sounds and since Steve and I write about encounters I'm probably a hypocrite (although I do tell partners about the blog and ask permission first).
Now here is where it gets interesting, I was in the locker room one day after working out in our gym and her former fuck buddy was there also. He looks at me and says, "You're dating G, right.?" "Yeah, why I asked.?" "Just wondering how you like having pussy I warmed up and used,? and he said it with a big shit eating grin. Then he asks me, "Do you eat that cunt of hers too." "I just looked at him and told him to go fuck off." But yeah, it is obvious he is enjoying knowing I was fucking pussy he had fucked and was eating it too." The whole idea was a turn on.
Now, I realize that BDenied says the whole thing turned him on, and good for him (we really like his blog, by the way and recommend it to all). But, I think it points to a common experience for many women.
Is there something about sticking your cock in a girl that causes some men to act like they own that girl? My husband sticks his cock into me. Often. And he owns me. But that's fine because I own him as well. We own each other in so many ways.
I'm not talking about the need to discuss something that happened, or light banter spiced with innuendo. What I'm talking about is that need to notch the proverbial belt after sex with a woman. As if it's a victory of some sort and share that conquest with others. I'd hardly say all men do this. I've met many men who understand and respect discretion. I will say that the bragging habit is far more prevalent among men than women.
Steve thought about it for a while when I posed the question one night. Steve did agree that many men simply must let other men know who they have fucked. It's along the same lines as letting other men know your horse came in big.
However, Steve pointed out that some men feel very protective of the women they've been with, even when it's not a steady thing. Not creepy, overbearing protective, but good protective. Once he mentioned that, I thought about it and saw his point. Still, what's the deal? Do men see sex as an athletic competition? They are competitive by nature, which probably helped us survive in the cave-man days. Why do I think it has less to do with being disrespectful towards women and more to do with breaking another man's balls?
I don't know. My mood isn't as pissy as it sounds and since Steve and I write about encounters I'm probably a hypocrite (although I do tell partners about the blog and ask permission first).
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