Jack, Alicia, Danielle & Greg....and Us

Last Saturday night, (two Saturdays ago as of this writing) we moved our new relationships along.

Piper and I met Greg, Danielle, Jack and Alicia for drinks. Then, we were all invited back to Jack and Alicia's.

After a nightcap, we all began to get comfortable. The lights were low, some music was on in the background, drinks flowing freely. Finally, Jack broke the ice with a line about: "getting started and choosing up teams."

Some ground rules had previously been hinted at. For instance, Danielle has no desire, whatsoever, to be with a woman. On the other hand, Alicia piped-in and talked about being curious about being with a girl. Knowing Danielle's feelings, all eyes fell on Piper. Everyone laughed and Piper went and sat by Jack and Alicia.

Danielle, Greg and I headed off to a bedroom, but not before watching Piper and Alicia for awhile. Jack and his wife began to kiss. Piper sat next to them and at first it looked a bit awkward until Alicia invited Piper to kiss Jack. Jack made-out with both for a few minutes before giving Alicia a little peck on the lips. Jack had a huge smile on his face. I told him that I knew that look and everyone laughed.

It was slow going with those three. Alicia was curious but shy. Piper undid her blouse and took off her bra. Alicia touched one breast, then another and finally, the two really kissed. Piper, as always, was very patient and calmed Alicia's nerves with soothing talk.

Danielle soon lost interest and took me into a bedroom, followed by her husband, Greg. She was not at all nervous and we were out of our clothes momentarily. Except for Greg. I soon found out that Greg and Danielle have a little humiliation thing going on.

The truth is, it threw me. Piper and I play our games. I like it when she teases me but it's all fun and games. No hardcore stuff. Danielle and Greg? That was a little more intense.

I'll finish this encounter in our next post and have Piper fill you in on her night as well.

Have a good weekend.

Looks Like We're Back

Hello Ladies & Gentlemen. It's been awhile but I'm so happy to see some of are old friends are still around. I hope everyone is happy and healthy. I also send belated Season's Greetings to all. I hope your Holidays were as fabulous as ours.

I see my delightful husband has filled you in on some of our activities. It's always fun to spend time with our good friends, Kit and Luke. We've also been exploring some other relationships and I'll fill you in.

Since October, we've developed a friendship with two other couples: Greg and Danielle and Jack and Alicia. Greg and Danielle are a few years younger than Steve and I. Jack and Alicia are a few years older. They're nice couples who have been swinging now for a few years. We met both couples in a round-about way, through other friends.

Both couples have had good and bad experiences and were looking for a discrete and limited number of experienced "friends" to explore swinging.

We've met with both couples four or five times, out at bars and restaurants as well as at our homes. Nothing sexual has occurred. We're just feeling out each other, if you'll pardon the pun.

I'm intrigued by the possibilities of having a limited number of couples involved. I was never comfortable with anonymous, one-nighters. My enthusiasm for swinging/hot wifery also runs hot and cold, as Steve well knows. I can go for weeks and weeks and be ready to give it all up. Then, I'll suddenly be into the whole thing.

On the other hand, I am wary of becoming overly involved in any emotion-driven relationships. I do not want complications. I've taken a 'wait-and-see' attitude about this. I will admit, the get-togethers have been fun and the flirtations, which just began at our last meeting, have been polite, appropriate and not overly-familiar. People who want to be instant friends turn me off.

Greg and Danielle are a professional couple, very polished and self-confident. He's pretty damn, hot as well. He definitely works out. Dan, a brunette, has a slim, hot body as well. She's attractive but has a certain edge to her.

Jack and Alicia are different. Both are very laid back. Where Greg lives at the gym, Jack has that naturally strong, manly physique. The kind of guy who has some muscle but enjoys his beer as well. He's a guys-guy. You know, the type that looks like he can re-wire your house, fix your car and build you an addition. Alicia is very cute blond, but self-conscious of her weight. I'd describe her as big, but not over-weight, but you can't tell her that. She has the prettiest, lively eyes, a great laugh and a warm personality.

So, that's about it. We're supposed to see everyone on Saturday so we'll see how it goes.

Our Long Break - II...

... Or my wife's slut-fest. Continuing on with our fine evening with Luke and Kit.

Luke was all over Piper from the moment he arrived. It even made Kit smile. The guy couldn't wait to fuck Piper. In fact, Kit told me that Luke had been talking about it all day.

We hadn't poured our second drink before he had his hands on Piper. He was aggressive and she liked it as well. Even Kit got into the act, feeling Piper's ass and tits. Since I asked Piper to tease me that night, she told me I would have to watch, but not participate until she said so. Damn, that was hot.

When Luke had enough foreplay, he slapped Piper on the ass and nearly dragged her into the bedroom. Kit and I followed. Luke had his cock in Piper's mouth in no time. Kit got undressed and made out with Luke while I sat and watched. Kit said something like: "Piper's our little bitch tonight." And she was.

My wife is pretty submissive and the idea of submitting to another couple always gets her going. For me, there's something hot about seeing a girl encourage her boyfriend in fucking another girl.

Luke treated Piper like a little slut. He forced her down on her knees and pushed her pretty little head back and forth on his cock. After he told her to get undressed. She lowered her dress, slipped off her panties and tossed them to me without a glance. I pulled down my pants, took them and began to rub.

Luke had Kit get undressed as well and get on all fours. Then he told Piper: "Lick her pussy." Piper got on all fours and buried her mouth in Kit's pussy. Then, wonder of wonders, he had my wife rim his girlfriend. Piper licked around Kit's ass and then stuck her damn tongue in her ass. Nasty and hot.

Luke yanked her head up by her hair, kissed her and said, "You taste like ass, bitch."

I tell you, I was as horny as I've ever been. This was a new level of nastiness for Piper and when she looked at me I could tell the show was all for me.

"I'll lick her ass some more if you play with yourself," she said.

I did. She did.

They fucked, one on one and two on one. Towards the end, Kit and Luke greased up her ass so she could get butt-fucked and did she ever. I won't bore with the details but lets just say she was screaming into the pillow as he drove it home. She even started to tear up a bit before they got into a rhythm.

Awesome. And once again I find myself totally blown away by my darling wife and what she'll do to please me.

Later that night, when we were alone, I asked her if there was anything I could do for her. She kissed me and said, "take me out for a romantic dinner and then bring me home and make love to me. Just the two of us."

Piper's attention and devotion to our marriage is amazing.

Our Long Break

Hello, all. Man, did we ignore Babylon Visited. Mostly, it was just Holiday craziness and overall laziness. We had a terrific Holiday and hope you did as well (if anyone is still reading).

Everything is fine with us. No, the blog-silence was not a symptom of relationship trouble. Just....life. We've been meaning to update but it's easy to put that type of thing off day after day. If we've missed any e-mails, we apologize and will remedy that soon.

On the hotwife front we have had two fun experiences. The first was towards the end of November when Kit and Luke came over. They're our favorite couple by far and we always look forward to an evening of debauchery when they come over.

Since it had been so long since seeing Kit and Luke, Piper decided to dress for the occasion. She wore a really tight dress that showed off her lovely ass. Underneath, she wore one of my favs, garter belt and black stockings. I got to sit and watch her get ready. Very hot, as she snapped the garters into place, put on her heels and applied her makeup. We got in some naughty talk beforehand, with me asking her what she'd let Luke do to her that night. That got me very excited. Then she teased me, which I love. It's kind of our new thing.

"Luke can do whatever he wants," she said.

"Ass fuck you?"

"Yes."

"Pull your hair?"

"If he wants. Anything," she said. "Maybe you should just watch."

"Can I play with myself?"

"If you're good. Maybe you can jerk off with my panties after he gets me out of them."

Heaven. For being such a lady during the day my wife can be quite the slut at night, which she proved later on. The joys of marriage.

More, later.

Crude or Competitive?

Here's an interesting quote from BDenied at Cuckold Husband:

Now here is where it gets interesting, I was in the locker room one day after working out in our gym and her former fuck buddy was there also. He looks at me and says, "You're dating G, right.?" "Yeah, why I asked.?" "Just wondering how you like having pussy I warmed up and used,? and he said it with a big shit eating grin. Then he asks me, "Do you eat that cunt of hers too." "I just looked at him and told him to go fuck off." But yeah, it is obvious he is enjoying knowing I was fucking pussy he had fucked and was eating it too." The whole idea was a turn on.

Now, I realize that BDenied says the whole thing turned him on, and good for him (we really like his blog, by the way and recommend it to all). But, I think it points to a common experience for many women.

Is there something about sticking your cock in a girl that causes some men to act like they own that girl? My husband sticks his cock into me. Often. And he owns me. But that's fine because I own him as well. We own each other in so many ways.

I'm not talking about the need to discuss something that happened, or light banter spiced with innuendo. What I'm talking about is that need to notch the proverbial belt after sex with a woman. As if it's a victory of some sort and share that conquest with others. I'd hardly say all men do this. I've met many men who understand and respect discretion. I will say that the bragging habit is far more prevalent among men than women.

Steve thought about it for a while when I posed the question one night. Steve did agree that many men simply must let other men know who they have fucked. It's along the same lines as letting other men know your horse came in big.

However, Steve pointed out that some men feel very protective of the women they've been with, even when it's not a steady thing. Not creepy, overbearing protective, but good protective. Once he mentioned that, I thought about it and saw his point. Still, what's the deal? Do men see sex as an athletic competition? They are competitive by nature, which probably helped us survive in the cave-man days. Why do I think it has less to do with being disrespectful towards women and more to do with breaking another man's balls?

I don't know. My mood isn't as pissy as it sounds and since Steve and I write about encounters I'm probably a hypocrite (although I do tell partners about the blog and ask permission first).

Another Gang Bang?

A reader recently asked about Piper and another gang bang.

We're going on a year since the first one. At that time, Piper had sex with six guys. It was a wild night and nothing I ever thought would truly happen. She was terrific that night and I know that if it wasn't for me, she never would have done it.

We've discussed it from time to time. I know she has mixed feelings. She described an internal tug-of-war, between being completely turned on by the attention and by turning me on and feeling dirty, in a bad way.

At other times, we teased each other about gang bangs during sex. I once suggested twenty guys and she said, "Is that all?" I amended the number to fifty and she just said, "Ouch!"

Piper is down a bit this year. Last year she had sex with eight guys, not counting me. This year I think we're at five. Personally, I'd like to up that number but it's obviously up to Piper. A gang bang with seven or eight guys would be fun to see but a logistical nightmare. It's hard enough getting one or two people together with schedules and everything. Then, there's picking guys she's comfortable with. Piper's never really been about anonymous sex.

Frankly, I admit I sometimes push Piper into things. Kind of like a kid in a candy store. But, I don't want to push too hard and screw up a good thing. She has her limits and I respect that. Or try to, at any rate. What guy would want to screw-up a situation with a woman that has fulfilled his every fantasy?

Open Mike Night

Steve gave you his take on my evening with Mike. Now it's my turn.

To start, he's a great guy and I had a great time. As a thirty-three year old woman, the attentions of a twenty-two year old man are appreciated. His enthusiasm was a big turn-on for me. He didn't have that 'been there, done that' attitude. The look on his face when he came in my mouth and I swallowed was priceless.

Mike was great in bed. His enthusiasm and staying power more than made up for any inexperience. It's really all about pacing, anyway, isn't? Young men know what to do. They do what nature intended. It's all a matter of relaxing and not getting over-stimulated. After he came that first time, Mike did calm down and he had tremendous staying power.

We did talk and I told him it was OK if the blow job was all he wanted. He looked embarrassed but said, 'No.' He didn't want to stop. I also told him that if there was something he wanted to try, just ask. If I didn't ant to, I'd let him know.

"Like what?" He asked.

"Like, a certain position, or I can touch myself for you. You can pull my hair if you want. Things like that."

My candor embarrassed him more but I think it was worth it. I don't know why more people don't let a partner know what they want. Then there's not that awkward problem about trying something that may shock or disturb your partner. Really, people should talk more. Especially if both people hold what is said in the bedroom as confidential. I think it should always be confidential. Something that should never be thrown back in someones face, during an argument for instance.

Despite his embarrassment, there were a few things Mike did eventually try. For example, he wanted to try doggy-style, which he enjoyed very much.

I've been with a few guys now in the past few months who are younger than me by 8 - 10 years. I've noticed that they love the breasts. Most guys do, but Mike and the others were all about the breasts: feeling them, sucking them playing with them. Guys my age love breasts but seem to love the ass more. They shortchange the breasts for the ass. They love grabbing ass, slapping ass and putting things into the ass. Could be my experience but I wonder if such things do change over time.

I got Mike to climax three times during the course of the night, though the third one didn't seem that intense. I'm telling you, those young guys can really go!

The downside of sex with Mike is that guys can be dicks. Not Mike but his, brother, Luke. It wasn't a huge secret that Mike spent the night with me and the next morning Mike was pretty cool about the whole thing. Luke just had to tease him until Mike looked really uncomfortable and Luke backed off. Luke also made a few comments about me having been with both of them. He thought he was being funny but just crossed the line. I'm glad Steve wasn't present for this, though. Luke later apologized but I was still disappointed.