Crude or Competitive?

Here's an interesting quote from BDenied at Cuckold Husband:

Now here is where it gets interesting, I was in the locker room one day after working out in our gym and her former fuck buddy was there also. He looks at me and says, "You're dating G, right.?" "Yeah, why I asked.?" "Just wondering how you like having pussy I warmed up and used,? and he said it with a big shit eating grin. Then he asks me, "Do you eat that cunt of hers too." "I just looked at him and told him to go fuck off." But yeah, it is obvious he is enjoying knowing I was fucking pussy he had fucked and was eating it too." The whole idea was a turn on.

Now, I realize that BDenied says the whole thing turned him on, and good for him (we really like his blog, by the way and recommend it to all). But, I think it points to a common experience for many women.

Is there something about sticking your cock in a girl that causes some men to act like they own that girl? My husband sticks his cock into me. Often. And he owns me. But that's fine because I own him as well. We own each other in so many ways.

I'm not talking about the need to discuss something that happened, or light banter spiced with innuendo. What I'm talking about is that need to notch the proverbial belt after sex with a woman. As if it's a victory of some sort and share that conquest with others. I'd hardly say all men do this. I've met many men who understand and respect discretion. I will say that the bragging habit is far more prevalent among men than women.

Steve thought about it for a while when I posed the question one night. Steve did agree that many men simply must let other men know who they have fucked. It's along the same lines as letting other men know your horse came in big.

However, Steve pointed out that some men feel very protective of the women they've been with, even when it's not a steady thing. Not creepy, overbearing protective, but good protective. Once he mentioned that, I thought about it and saw his point. Still, what's the deal? Do men see sex as an athletic competition? They are competitive by nature, which probably helped us survive in the cave-man days. Why do I think it has less to do with being disrespectful towards women and more to do with breaking another man's balls?

I don't know. My mood isn't as pissy as it sounds and since Steve and I write about encounters I'm probably a hypocrite (although I do tell partners about the blog and ask permission first).

Another Gang Bang?

A reader recently asked about Piper and another gang bang.

We're going on a year since the first one. At that time, Piper had sex with six guys. It was a wild night and nothing I ever thought would truly happen. She was terrific that night and I know that if it wasn't for me, she never would have done it.

We've discussed it from time to time. I know she has mixed feelings. She described an internal tug-of-war, between being completely turned on by the attention and by turning me on and feeling dirty, in a bad way.

At other times, we teased each other about gang bangs during sex. I once suggested twenty guys and she said, "Is that all?" I amended the number to fifty and she just said, "Ouch!"

Piper is down a bit this year. Last year she had sex with eight guys, not counting me. This year I think we're at five. Personally, I'd like to up that number but it's obviously up to Piper. A gang bang with seven or eight guys would be fun to see but a logistical nightmare. It's hard enough getting one or two people together with schedules and everything. Then, there's picking guys she's comfortable with. Piper's never really been about anonymous sex.

Frankly, I admit I sometimes push Piper into things. Kind of like a kid in a candy store. But, I don't want to push too hard and screw up a good thing. She has her limits and I respect that. Or try to, at any rate. What guy would want to screw-up a situation with a woman that has fulfilled his every fantasy?

Open Mike Night

Steve gave you his take on my evening with Mike. Now it's my turn.

To start, he's a great guy and I had a great time. As a thirty-three year old woman, the attentions of a twenty-two year old man are appreciated. His enthusiasm was a big turn-on for me. He didn't have that 'been there, done that' attitude. The look on his face when he came in my mouth and I swallowed was priceless.

Mike was great in bed. His enthusiasm and staying power more than made up for any inexperience. It's really all about pacing, anyway, isn't? Young men know what to do. They do what nature intended. It's all a matter of relaxing and not getting over-stimulated. After he came that first time, Mike did calm down and he had tremendous staying power.

We did talk and I told him it was OK if the blow job was all he wanted. He looked embarrassed but said, 'No.' He didn't want to stop. I also told him that if there was something he wanted to try, just ask. If I didn't ant to, I'd let him know.

"Like what?" He asked.

"Like, a certain position, or I can touch myself for you. You can pull my hair if you want. Things like that."

My candor embarrassed him more but I think it was worth it. I don't know why more people don't let a partner know what they want. Then there's not that awkward problem about trying something that may shock or disturb your partner. Really, people should talk more. Especially if both people hold what is said in the bedroom as confidential. I think it should always be confidential. Something that should never be thrown back in someones face, during an argument for instance.

Despite his embarrassment, there were a few things Mike did eventually try. For example, he wanted to try doggy-style, which he enjoyed very much.

I've been with a few guys now in the past few months who are younger than me by 8 - 10 years. I've noticed that they love the breasts. Most guys do, but Mike and the others were all about the breasts: feeling them, sucking them playing with them. Guys my age love breasts but seem to love the ass more. They shortchange the breasts for the ass. They love grabbing ass, slapping ass and putting things into the ass. Could be my experience but I wonder if such things do change over time.

I got Mike to climax three times during the course of the night, though the third one didn't seem that intense. I'm telling you, those young guys can really go!

The downside of sex with Mike is that guys can be dicks. Not Mike but his, brother, Luke. It wasn't a huge secret that Mike spent the night with me and the next morning Mike was pretty cool about the whole thing. Luke just had to tease him until Mike looked really uncomfortable and Luke backed off. Luke also made a few comments about me having been with both of them. He thought he was being funny but just crossed the line. I'm glad Steve wasn't present for this, though. Luke later apologized but I was still disappointed.

Watching the Wife

So, Piper filled you in on Stacy's visit. Very hot.

A few days later, we had Luke, Kit and two other people out. We had a nice party. Luke, Kit and Luke's brother, Mike stayed for a few days.

Mike just graduated college. He's a good kid but, of his own admission after a few beers, he has not had many women. Unfortunately for him, with Piper and Kit there, it couldn't have been easy. He knows his brother, Kit, Piper and I swing but he hasn't done anything like that.

One day Piper was running around in these little, tight shorts that really showed off her sweet ass. She also had a tee shirt on and her nipples were hard. Kit also looked great. Poor Mike looked like he had a hard on all day long. Hell, I did. Problem for him was, he can't find any relief where Kit is concerned so he's really checking out Piper most of the time.

Mike's twenty-two. I remember that age quite well. I was horny all the time, unlike now, where I'm horny 75% of the time. I really wanted to have some fun with Kit and didn't want to be selfish about Piper.

So, at night, we're all relaxing with some cocktails. Everyone is unwinding. Kit and Luke leave to go to their bedroom. Kit asked me if I felt like joining them. Of course I did. I really wanted to fuck her. It's been awhile.

That left the Mike, Piper and I and none of us was feeling any pain. Piper got up and sat in my lap while Mike watched television. I started to feel her ass and asked Mike if he wanted to feel-up my wife.

Piper slapped me on the shoulder while Mike said, "Sure." I whispered to Piper, "Come-on, the kid's not that experienced, give him a thrill."

Piper got up and sat beside him. "Would you like to touch me?" She was very nice about it and could make anyone feel comfortable. He blushed but said yes. Who wouldn't?

She got up so he could run his hands over her ass. Then he was up her shirt, playing with her tits.

"You can kiss her, if you want."

He went for it, and they made out while he had his hands all over her body. Piper finally reached down and felt his cock.

"You're so hard," she said, but he wasn't really listening. He was too busy exploring her body with his hands. He wasn't the only one hard. I was dying to see this young guy fuck Piper.

Piper began to whisper in his ear, take him by the hand and led him into our bedroom. I grabbed another beer and quietly followed.

Once in the bedroom, the got down to it. Piper stripped down and sat next to Mike. They kissed while she rubbed his cock. Then she got him out of his clothes, pushed him down onto the bed and told him to relax. She then went down on him and it must have been too much because every now and then he'd tell her to stop for a few seconds. He apologized for being overeager. Piper gave him a sweet smile and again told him to relax and not worry about it.

She wrapped her mouth around his cock and really worked it. He kept on saying, "I'm going to cum, I'm going to cum," as if to warn her but she looked up and said "Cum." Then her lips were wrapped around his cock again. He came, and she swallowed every bit of his load.

She laid down next to him, talked to him and they started up again, in a few minutes. This time, his staying power was much improved. Mike fucked Piper for a good, long while. One hot thing was when she went down on him. Piper was lowering her mouth to his cock but looking straight at me and smiling. So very hot.


I need to cut this short. It's too long already. All I can say is: Best, Hottest Wife Ever!

Our Vacation

Yes, yes, we've been bad bloggers. It's just the Summer thing. Trying to wring every ounce out of Summer can be tiring.

Our vacation was wonderful. Ten days out on The Cape. The weather was good overall and we were really able to decompress and return with our batteries recharged. A HUGE congratulations goes out to Penelope and Odysseus at Married Exploits. They've had a beautiful baby girl! I'm sure life will be different but it will be oh, so, sweet.

We're also sorry to see that Erotic Union, one of our favorite blogs, has disappeared. Steve and I developed a good relationship with Him and Her, even traded photographs. I hope they return. They'll be missed.

Next, if you've sent me an e-mail, my apologies. A good part of my Summer has been Computer-Free! Just needed to get away from the electronic intrusions: computers, e-mails, cell phones and answering machines. For the first time in a long time I felt comfortable leaving the cell phone at home. I didn't rush to answer the phone and I even unplugged the answering machine for a few days. It was liberating. Not practical in the long term, but liberating.

Now, on to the good stuff.

Over the course of our ten days, Steve and I had a few friends out to stay with us.

First, we had a few quiet days to ourselves. Then Stacy arrived. She arrived early Sunday morning and stayed until Tuesday. I went out Sunday afternoon for a nice run and when I returned, Steve and Stacy were in our room and the two of them were going at it like there was no tomorrow. I'm not sure it even registered that I had walked in. I got undressed and hopped in the shower for a nice, leisurely shower. By the time I got out, Steve was upstairs and Stacy was still in our bed, looking disheveled but satisfied.

She thanked me for the use of my husband. She broke up with her boyfriend and hadn't had sex for quite some time. We had a nice long talk, which we had not done for a long time and then, much to our surprise Steve had a nice lunch for all of us.

Fast forward to night time. We were watching a movie. I was all comfy-cozy on the couch. Steve started giving me a back rub. A real good one. It made me very sleepy. Then, Stacy took over, then Steve. Next thing I know, I have Steve sucking on one tit and Stacy they other. Then, Steve had his hand in my panties and made me climax while Stacy kissed me and played with my tits.


I then asked Steve If there was anything I could do for him.


"I want to see you and Stacy together."


Stacy was was into it so we went off to the bedroom.

Now, truth be told, I like Stacy very much but she's not a woman that really does it for me. Some women really turn me on while others don't. She's knows this though, so I'm not telling tales out of school. It's not that it's a chore. It's not. It's just more to turn on Steve than anything else. A little gift for the husband, you might say.

Anyway, we retired to the boudoir and slipped out of those nagging clothes. Stacy and I did a little 69, with me on the bottom. I must be getting old because I developed a crick in my neck, trying to reach her with my mouth. Her pussy always seemed to be an inch or two away, so I couldn't lie flat. Finally, I just told her to sit right on my face so I could make her cum. Which she did. And I did.

Steve got some action as well but really enjoyed seeing Stacy and I play around, doing different things. So, a good time was had by all.

Steve wants to fill you in on the rest of the vacation.

Pre-Vaction Fun

So, the afternoon before we leave for Cape Cod, I get a call from Jason. That's Piper's young stud. He'd like to get together. I found Piper and asked her if she'd be interested in meeting Jason for drinks.

She had a twinkle in her eye. "Drinks? Is that all?"

"Hopefully not," I said.

She got ready around seven-thirty. I sat on the bed and watched her. Oh bliss. One of the greatest joys is watching your wife, straight from the shower, get ready to go get royally fucked by some young guy.

I'll take you through it:

Out of the shower, her pussy shaved almost bald. Dries off with a towel, very slowly. Pulls on a pair of lacy, black panties, lacy black bra and stockings. Then, puts on her make-up. Then, it's a blue, silk shirt and a mini-skirt, pleated, like a school girls. It comes a few inches above the knee. She looked fantastic.

Every now and then she'd look over her shoulder. She caught me stroking myself and smiled. I think after that, she went even slower than usual, throwing me a sly grin every now and then. I'm a guy who will never complain that it takes women a long time to get ready. It's always worth the wait.

"Don't make yourself cum," she said.

"Why?" I asked.

"I want you all worked up tonight."

OK, I thought. This will be fun.

We meet Jason for drinks at a bar. Funny thing happened. At least funny to Piper and I. Some guy was pissed off at another guy for checking out his girlfriend. "Got a problem...." That type of thing. We were laughing, given the situation we were in.

We stayed about an hour before Jason followed us back to our house. In the door, another drink and then we were off to the races. Nothing quite like getting up for another drink and coming back to find your beautiful bride on her knees with another guy's cock in her mouth.

I sat down to watch. Piper gave him head for a few minutes but that was just the appetizer. The main course was served in the bedroom.

Piper came out of the bedroom about an hour later and sat down next to me. Her hair was all messed up and her face flush.

"Jason needed a break," she explained. "How are you?"

We kissed and I put her hand on my cock. "Oh, my," she said. "You're so hard."

I took my pants off and she gave me a top-notch blow job. She looked up at me and asked, "Do you want to cum now or after Jason leaves?"

"After Jason leaves," I said. "Can I come and watch?"

She smiled and shook her head. I think she knew I was enjoying her teasing ways tonight. "He's shy tonight," she said. "You'll have to listen."

"Has he fucked your ass?"

"No. I'll go see if he wants to."

From what I could hear, he wanted to.

To shorten this long post, Jason left about an hour later. Piper was waiting for me in the bedroom. She looked sweetly exhausted. I laid down next to her. She gave me a play-by-play while I jerked off. Then, the lights were out and we slept.

Hello!

Long time, no post. Sorry for our Summer schedule. We've been trying to get as much out of the Summer as possible. We've done some sailing, some riding and I've even tried my hand at golf. We really enjoy sailing and we're thinking about buying my Father's boat but the cost and the fees....blah, blah, blah. It may not be a good time for an investment like that.

We did house sit for Piper's Grandparents. That was a fun weekend. They have a few horses so we got to ride for a few days. Piper's very good. Me? Not very comfortable with the horses.

We did get to go to a swinger's party last weekend, hosted by a friend. No action but we met a nice couple. Piper and I just visited with some old friends and made some new ones. While enjoying a drink, we were approached by another couple. They're a few years older than us, I'm guessing early to mid-forties. Piper liked them because they seemed normal. Not out to impress, brag or prove anything. I agreed but also found the wife very hot. She is one of those trim, athletic women who look like they play tennis four times a week. Great legs. At the end of the night we exchanged numbers and might see them on a more intimate basis.

Piper's going to update soon and I wanted to check in to let everyone know we're alive and well.

We're going to The Cape for a week for our vacation and I'm looking forward to it.

See you soon.