Sunday, October 4, 2009

Another Gang Bang?

A reader recently asked about Piper and another gang bang.

We're going on a year since the first one. At that time, Piper had sex with six guys. It was a wild night and nothing I ever thought would truly happen. She was terrific that night and I know that if it wasn't for me, she never would have done it.

We've discussed it from time to time. I know she has mixed feelings. She described an internal tug-of-war, between being completely turned on by the attention and by turning me on and feeling dirty, in a bad way.

At other times, we teased each other about gang bangs during sex. I once suggested twenty guys and she said, "Is that all?" I amended the number to fifty and she just said, "Ouch!"

Piper is down a bit this year. Last year she had sex with eight guys, not counting me. This year I think we're at five. Personally, I'd like to up that number but it's obviously up to Piper. A gang bang with seven or eight guys would be fun to see but a logistical nightmare. It's hard enough getting one or two people together with schedules and everything. Then, there's picking guys she's comfortable with. Piper's never really been about anonymous sex.

Frankly, I admit I sometimes push Piper into things. Kind of like a kid in a candy store. But, I don't want to push too hard and screw up a good thing. She has her limits and I respect that. Or try to, at any rate. What guy would want to screw-up a situation with a woman that has fulfilled his every fantasy?

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Good luck and enjoy.

And if Piper ever decides to repeat the experience, please, please, please let me volunteer to join in.

vsk witness said...

The constant internal conflict between not wanting to screw up a great thing and wanting to have a new experience. I'd like to here from Piper how she thinks you should balance that one. It drives me crazy at times because I do want a new experience but I respect VSK's needs to be comfortable in the situation. Anyway, always like to hear both of your insights.

bdenied said...

while Id love to see my own wife do several guys I know its not her thing. We have a friend who visited someone who puts together gang bangs for wives and his wife had 11 men at one of them. I know they have gone to at least three..she fucks everyone but him and she does it blindfolded too.....he only gets to watch....bottom line is you have to let her decide her level of comfort but you say as much in your posts. but yeah the thought is hot aint it

lclassyfun said...

yep! i'd be in and sherri might want to help!

best-rob

Anonymous said...

GBs almost inevitably lead to a degree of anonymity.

The alternative is to do three or foursomes and then combine the men. And what man wouldn't want that? With P?

This is what regular GBing wives do - it combines practicality and a good continual supply of cock for serving her high energy erotic need for high-level stimulation.

This, however, didn't seem to be what P wants; on the other side of the coin, for S., the husband-wife relationship retains a treasured level of intimacy that creates MORE security, ironically.

Another issues: GB versus a train? I imagine P. would more enjoy the latter than the former. More individual intimacy. And of course it can be combined! A train culminating in DP/3P, etc!

I have a series of articles and links on the erotic pyschosexuality of GBs. Perhaps I'll forward them for your (I hope delighted) consideration. P. can then mull them and decide what suits her.

The bottom line? For women who gangbang regularly, its all about max orgasms. For the men, it is considerably more complicated. Men typically get them started, but women decide to keep them going.

-Orson

Anonymous said...

And a note to Piper. If Steve is like me, you're never better than when you're BAD.

Or how did Mae West put it? Something like "when I'm good I'm good. When I'm bad I'm better."

GDs are like DPs. They exploit and glory in the fact that men and women are different. A female is built to take on more than one lover at a time is wonderful ways no man can! How liberating and lusty.

And men can only envy and admire this slutty capacity. Men would too if we could!

-Orson

Caroline and Michael said...

Michael has arranged this for his wife and girlfriends in the past. The biggest crowd was 15. We're talking about this for me and the number involved will most likely be determined by who will be available to show up.