Third Annual Piper Awards

One of my favorite things to do is promote blogs that have given me pleasure, made me think or simply entertained me. Each, I believe, has carved out a unique nich in the blogosphere with their own unique voice. Steve has decided to chime in on some of my choices for the Third Annual Pipers. So, lets have at it.

JOURNAL

I kept a journal as a young lass and many of my girlfriends did as well. It was a secret treasure trove of my thoughts, hopes, dreams, desires and fears. The interloper who purloined even an innocent, casual glance was doomed to an earful of pre-teen -tween vitriol that could make a sergeant-major quake.

Journals are alive and well today in the form of many blogs. People have opened-up that treasure trove for all to see. Some of are interest only to friends of the journalist. Others are of interest to no one. Some suck you in to follow the writer's trials.

I've read On the Prowl for many years now. It's been a delight to read her diary/blog and see a young woman grow in so many ways. She's strong and resilient but also vulnerable. Smart and self-confident but occasionally naive and filled with self-doubt.

It's not just voyeurism that compels my return. Any man would do well to read this beautiful girl's thoughts. She doesn't seek perfection in men, a common misunderstanding men read into a woman's frustration. Chickpea knows perfection is a fairytale and not fair to anyone. Instead, she simply wants the bumps in the road to be ironed out and faced head-on. I know Chickpea's fella's are in it deep when they react to a problem by...vanishing. Silence is fine, anger is fine but don't up and leave. When you do it over minor things you're telegraphing how you'll handle big things.

Chickpea's triumphs inspire me almost as much as her spirit in the face of adversity. - "Piper"

Read her for some time now. She's complex but not complicated. I hate when men confuse the two. Consistency and stability in a relationship isn't the demand of a high-maintenance woman. Hope she finds both. Oh, she also posted a photo one time that got me instantly hard. I think fish net stocking were involved. Much appreciated. - "Steve"

MAN BLOG

In honor of Men, I'll keep this as short and as monosyllabic as possible. I love blogs by men. Not guys or boys but Men! What's the difference? Like Potter Stewart's definition of pornography, "I know it when I see it..." Of course, Stewart went on to say, "...and this movie isn't it." Well, this blog is it. A Man Blog, Pluff Mud Musings.

One of the refreshing aspects of Pluff is that he's secure enough to describe his failures while never over-playing his successes. Men don't need to brag. - "Piper"

Who is Potter Stewart? Does he blog?- "Steve"

FEMININE SENSIBILITIES

Lazy Geisha continues to provide it's readers with feminine insight wrapped sterling prose. Nina is eloquent and elegant on subjects as diverse as sex toys and baseball. Nina has many talents but one shines above all: when I read a post I feel as if Nina's there and we're talking, perhaps over coffee or a glass of wine. She makes you feel at home. I bet she's a terrific hostess. Plus, I think I have a crush on her.

Blogs are like wine. Sometimes a bottle of Beaujolais Nouveau hits the spot, sometimes it takes a fine Pomerol. Both are good but there's a difference. And Nina ain't the Beaujolais.

My other choice is Bad Influence Girl. She writes it from the heart, whether it's personal issues, the under-rated missionary position or the pleasure derived from giving pleasure. If you're into sex toys, BI Girl also has reviews for you. Really, it's a can't miss blog with a unique voice. - "Piper"


What can you say about Nina? Smart, hot, bisexual and a loyal citizen of Red Sox Nation. So many good things should not come in one package. It may upset the balance of the universe - "Steve"

SCORCHER

Ouch! Don't touch Amy's blog or stare directly at it for to long. White hot. - "Steve"

NEW GEM

New to me, anway. How can you not like That Girl's Life with a quote like this:

"Obviously the sex Saturday was incredible. I gather few things are as inspiring to a man as listening to the woman he's about to fuck describe why sex is great with another man.

Another man this man has watched fuck you.

Of course, in all fairness, it could have been the boots."

Yep! Sometimes it is all about the boots. But, it's more than that. I like the way this girl writes and I like the fact she does write, as opposed to posting photo after photo. That's fine if you do but I appreciate the prose. - "Piper"

TUTORIAL

Think Tom Paine was just a brilliant 18th century political pamphleteer? Think again. Polyamorously Perverse by Tom Paine approaches the subject of alternative lifestyles like a fighter approaches a bare-knuckled bout. He doesn't pull punches and says what is on his mind, even if it's about his own foibles.

There many extremely useful posts for those considering some type of non-exclusive relationship and I'd recommend this blog to those thinking of taking the plunge before they do so. Also, Tom practices what can be the best side of blogging. He opens dialogues by posting others thoughts, giving us his thoughts and then opening the floor for discussion.

Typically, as I write this, Tom's considering closing shop. Maybe I shouldn't link to anyone. Every time I do it seems like they disappear. - "Piper"

Often says what I'm thinking. The only difference is I'm too much of a pussy to say it! - "Steve"

COUPLES

We have two in this category. Both of us enjoy Erotic Union and Sexy Duet. We have written about them before and consider them great blog friends. They tend to be on the light, breezy fun side. Perfect Beach Blogs if you're crazy enough to ruin the beach by dragging a lop top onto the sands. Our choice if we ever partied with other blog couples (wink, wink). - "Piper"

HOT WIFERY

On the more contemplative side of things, you have Hot Wife Experiences by RachAndrew. Like Tom Paine, a good primer for those exploring Hot Wifery. They handle the subject with grace, dignity and sensitivity often missing in the genre. - "Piper"

Quality goods. A definite read for any man thinking about approaching his significant other about this lifestyle. Good insight into the female perspective. I realize I can be selfish in that arena and some entries have actually helped me out. - "Steve"

Shasta, at Stiletto Diaries, is one of our favorites as well. Her detailed account of her first outside-of-marriage experience holds lessons for us all. She was also brutally honest early on about ignoring her own poly rules. She took a lot of heat for that but take it she did.

HOT HUSBAND

What would January be without giving my blogfather a Piper? Wanton Maleness really pressed the envelope last year with a number of first times. He came through, so far, unscathed. For any woman who fantasizes about a bi husband (admittedly, not me) WM is you're man.

Last but not least, an old favorite, Saratoga. This may not be your cup of tea. A submissive male details his thoughts and experiences. It can be extreme but it's thoughtful as well. It's a fascinating lifestyle from many perspectives. It's nothing I've been tempted to try but I enjoy the read. I also like the cat woman pics. I've always wanted to dress-up like Cat Woman for Halloween it's just I could never pull it off. Cat Woman is slick, graceful and sensual. I'm a dork.

I did make him his own, special statue.

That's how I'd dress for our date! Not that I'd really have the nerve to dress like that.

Love you guys and thanks for the 2007 memories.